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       If you have read my previous blog, you may feel that this blog would be the exact opposite of what I have said. I have two arguments for that. One is we live in a contradictory world and I belong to the world. Therefore, I am contradictory. Second one is, why not look it from the other perspective? Again, this is based on the assumption that you are in so much in love with a person and your parents are opposing whatever the reason maybe. You want to marry that person so that you stay happy in your life. Would you be happy when you marry the person you love after all those struggles? Maybe. Come to the conclusion after reading below as well as in the link ( https://reasonsbehindfrombala.blogspot.com/2021/03/why-it-is-ok-to-marry-someone-even.html ) In an experiment, students were asked to join an extracurricular club. But there is one catch there. Students has to experience three electric shock in order to get admission to the club. Some students received t...

ஒ த்த உறவு கூட்டி வந்து மொத்த உறவை கொண்டு போகும்   - Vairamuthu Disclaimer: I am not against love marriage. I just want to give another perspective. Let me assume that you are in so much in love with a person and your parents are opposing whatever the reason maybe. You want to marry that person so that you stay happy in your life. What if I told you that same happiness can be retained if you marry someone your mom says? I know it is very hard even to think of that but for a small period of time let us take emotions out of the equation. Let us see that how by an experiment. Few days before the cricket world cup semi-final, Indians were asked how they would feel, if India won or lost the match against New Zealand. However, before making the predictions about their feelings, one group of fans were asked to describe their typical day (describers) and other group were not asked to describe (non-describers). Few days after Dhoni got runout, fans were asked to report the happiness ...

 எந்தப்பக்கம் காணும்போதும் வானம் ஒன்று நீ எந்தப்பாதை ஏகும்போதும் ஊா்கள் உண்டு -Vairamuthu Life will be fine until one day you ask yourself this question to yourself. “What is my passion?” Some people may not realize what they want to do in life and according to me it is completely fine. According to Oxford definition of passion, it is a a very strong feeling of love, hate, anger, enthusiasm. As we are human being, obviously, those emotion would change. Moreover, having passion is like having a tunnel vision. You focus only on one thing and may miss out some opportunity. I was asked in an interview “Where do you want to see yourself in 5 years?”. I said I have no plan. Then the interviewer started saying the portion of the story in Alice in wonderland. If you don’t know where you are going, then it doesn’t matter which path you take. I do not know the following experiment then, otherwise I would have lectured the interviewer.😅 Christopher Chabris and Daniel Simons conducted a...

  “Everyone who has ever taken a shower has had an idea. It's the person who gets out of the shower, dries off, and does something about it that makes a difference.” ― Nolan Bushnell I believe you too have a dream about starting your own company as many of us do. But not everyone will be in a position to start a company because of many valuable reasons like fear of failure and many excuses that we give ourselves. There are many risks associated with running a company but before that starting a company is itself needs a lot of will power. So, what is one of the easy ways to start a start-up? Just own a cat! Before going into the explanation of how owning the cat can make you an entrepreneur there are some easy conditions that has to be met. There should not be any pregnant women in your house. Always be careful while driving. If you ever feel little sad, seek help rather than to stay alone and sing “என் இனிய தனிமையே”. Because there is a risk of committing suicide.    ...